Trust Repair: How Do You Handle Small Letdowns? (10-Question Quiz)
This quiz is about minor disappointments such as missed updates, late returns and forgotten arrangements. It explores whether you can name the problem, look for a practical repair and let future evidence guide a proportionate decision. It does not ask you to forgive abuse or continue an unsafe relationship.
Think about the past four weeks. If you have not experienced a situation, use the closest comparable everyday situation. For self-reflection, not a clinical assessment.
Ready to begin?
Answer each question with your first instinct. Your result is calculated from the quiz data, not from a fixed script — so the same answers always give the same score.
The 10 questions in this quiz
- A friend forgets an agreed catch-up call once. You usually:
- Someone returns a borrowed book late and offers an apology. You:
- A teammate misses a routine update that you needed. When discussing repair, you:
- After a minor letdown, the person explains a genuine scheduling mistake. You:
- An apology sounds sincere, but the promised small change has not happened yet. You:
- You want to see whether a new arrangement works after a small mistake. You:
- The person follows the revised arrangement several times. You tend to:
- The same minor letdown continues despite a clear repair agreement. You:
- You are not ready to resume a particular low-stakes arrangement yet. You:
- When checking whether a small repair worked, you mainly look for:
How scoring works
Each answer is worth 3, 2 or 1 point, so your total lands between 10 and 30. Answer with your first instinct — the same answers always produce the same score, and nothing is stored on a server.